Thursday, 26 August 2010

The Pain of Post-Traditional Life?

As a Dominatrix I have contact with many people and am granted a unique and less guarded window into their worlds. Just recently I've been observing high levels of distress across many people. There seems to be an unusual number of bereavements and relationships seem to shatter with increasing frequency. This is unusual for the time of year, and yes, believe it or not, even pain of this type has it's seasonal shift.

Many are behaving coquettishly and are frivolous with the emotions of others, spending love wildly and without care then running along to the next willing car crash. Others are adjusting to the trauma of a life disrupted by events beyond their control as life exacts its dues and the circle completes. Yet always there is an undertow of pain and desperation that seems if anything to be building energy.

Find time to offer a kind word or a smile where you usually wouldn't bother. Take a moment to check in on those you know. The best way to bring light into your life, is to shine it into others - only the reflection will warm your heart. Society is going through the pains of change and it's claiming a heavy price from many. Those of you who have forgotten how to extend warmth and friendship because you feel cold and alone can reach outwards and gain what you seek. Like it or not, all things do pass in time, no matter how desperate and consuming they feel now. Rather than dwell on what ails you, form circles of support where you care for each other. While there's nothing wrong with feeling sad or angry, it becomes destructive if you allow it to gain mastery over you. 

Today I ask you all to extend a kindness to one total stranger and to one person you know to be suffering or feeling 'down'. An odd charge to come from the mouth of a Domme I know, but the only 'right' kind of suffering is the type I bestow consensually, and trust me, this aint it!
Twistedly,
Mistress
x

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