Aftercare

Once your scene is coming to a conclusion the question of aftercare raises its head. It's often a good idea to talk about this before you play together. Are there blankets to hand to help keep you warm? Many submissives experience a significant drop in body temperature and only become aware of it as the scene concludes. An experienced Dominant will have been monitoring your temperature during play and have the appropriate things to hand.

It's important that submissives remember to care for their Dominant after a Lifestyle scene too. Dominants often feel more 'light headed' after the conclusion of play. This is often a good time to drop into a service role if you're Their submissive/ it's a lifestyle play situation. See if They would like a drink or something to eat and fetch it for Them.  Once They are tended to, clean off any spills you were 'careless' enough to leave behind! This not only gets things put away but acts as a sort of bridge between the intensity of the scene and the 'real world', it also gives the Dominant time to catch Their breath and adjust too.