What an interesting spread of applications I've had! And I must say how impressed I've been with the general quality too. How nice to find those who can actually READ!
Now all applications are in and the gateway has been closed. I am screening those I feel are likely to be compatible with me play wise. One of the most important parts of this process at this point is getting to know the sub concerned as a person. Lifestyle play isn't just about how you play, but the dynamic you share. I like to chat about all sorts of different things at this point to get a 'feel' for the person I'm dealing with. It's also a chance for them to gain more of an idea about me, how hectic my world can be, and how many visitors and general interruptions I get! LOL!
My world is very demanding and that means I don't have the time, inclination or energy to maintain a sub who requires constant attention and maintenance. I think that's why I play so many switches, it's more fun to break something that has some resistance (unless you're A5, in which case you have none for me! LOL!), and entertaining to keep something with spirit at my heel (I'm sure a few of you I'm talking with have recognised yourselves here!) ;)
However, I have a love of contrasts so I adore playing with very submissive masochists too (and I'm certain you know who you are! LOL!). The 'flavour' is totally different. Where a switch plays in sharp hues and crispness, there is a warmth and almost nurturing edge to the exchange shared with a deeply submitting person.
For those of you who are currently talking with me, thank you for your honesty and trust. To those of you I declined, thank you for your interest in the role, I wish you good fortune in your search. Finally, as ever, thank you to Brighteyes{TM} for your continued and valued service.
Now to start meeting the chosen few......watch this space ;-)
Now all applications are in and the gateway has been closed. I am screening those I feel are likely to be compatible with me play wise. One of the most important parts of this process at this point is getting to know the sub concerned as a person. Lifestyle play isn't just about how you play, but the dynamic you share. I like to chat about all sorts of different things at this point to get a 'feel' for the person I'm dealing with. It's also a chance for them to gain more of an idea about me, how hectic my world can be, and how many visitors and general interruptions I get! LOL!
My world is very demanding and that means I don't have the time, inclination or energy to maintain a sub who requires constant attention and maintenance. I think that's why I play so many switches, it's more fun to break something that has some resistance (unless you're A5, in which case you have none for me! LOL!), and entertaining to keep something with spirit at my heel (I'm sure a few of you I'm talking with have recognised yourselves here!) ;)
However, I have a love of contrasts so I adore playing with very submissive masochists too (and I'm certain you know who you are! LOL!). The 'flavour' is totally different. Where a switch plays in sharp hues and crispness, there is a warmth and almost nurturing edge to the exchange shared with a deeply submitting person.
For those of you who are currently talking with me, thank you for your honesty and trust. To those of you I declined, thank you for your interest in the role, I wish you good fortune in your search. Finally, as ever, thank you to Brighteyes{TM} for your continued and valued service.
Now to start meeting the chosen few......watch this space ;-)
Twistedly,
Mistress
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