Saturday, 15 March 2014

Unicorn Hunting Part 3

Once you have established that the person you are talking to is genuine and who they claim to be, how do you meet them safely and make sure of this? If they are who they seem to be then meeting at a munch or local cafe wont be a problem. Genuine people will understand it is common sense to meet somewhere public while you get a 'feel' for each other.

Someone inclined to prey on others will attempt to coerce you into meeting more privately and/or not have a reputation that you can check. I sometimes meet privately with others as first contact, however, I have ascertained who they are as a person first and held lengthy conversations with them across several weeks. It is My experience of pro-Domme work that makes this something I'm familiar with, and I place certain safety restrictions down for both parties to ensure that this is a safe and sane choice. However, not everyone has a decade of reputation and experience to rely on!

I can be found attending various munches historically and am now returning to attending more of them as I ease back into the scene more. As a sadistic Domme I can be casually met at these events and am happy to talk to people and make new friends. I also occasionally offer to meet specific subs, slaves, switches and Dom/mes at munches I attend where others can vouch for who I am. I am also happy for those who are checking me out for being who I claim to be to contact others I'm involved with. Why would I mind if someone asked these questions before meeting Me?

Sometimes finding someone you are compatible with is as a rare and elusive a find as a unicorn. If the unicorn you think have spotted can't give you any of these things, why are you trusting your health, safety and life to them?
Twistedly,
Mistress x

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